{"id":1551,"date":"2016-05-20T12:23:23","date_gmt":"2016-05-20T10:23:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/africawebtv.nl\/blog\/?p=1551"},"modified":"2023-10-18T01:32:18","modified_gmt":"2023-10-17T23:32:18","slug":"nigerians-and-the-women-of-kenya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/africawebtv.nl\/blog\/nigerians-and-the-women-of-kenya\/","title":{"rendered":"Nigerians and the women of Kenya"},"content":{"rendered":"

Let\u2019s talk about sponsors, sugar daddies, sugar mummies, Nigerians and the women of Kenya! It is a known fact, Nigerians can never live anywhere without being conspicuous for whatever reasons; positive or negative. Almost everybody all over the world knows at least a Nigerian, for good or for bad. In Kenya everybody knows a Nigerian. We will let you decide if that is a good thing or a bad thing.<\/p>\n

The fact is that Nigerian guys are the talk of town. Almost half of the ladies in Nairobi, it turns out, have dated a Nigerian guy with varying degrees of success. Whenever this writer opens his mouth every Kenyan seems \u00a0to know immediately he is a Nigerian and they always start to recount their experiences at the hands of the \u201cogas<\/em>\u201d (big boss in the Nigerian language that the Nollywood movies have made popular across the world).<\/p>\n

It is a love-hate relationship. Not all that glitters is gold. From the stories going around, the typical Nigerian male in Kenya is both a lover and a fraudster. He is both romantic and brash. He is both a big spender and a big taker (he initially spends big to impress but he is going to leave with a high profit margin!). Many Nigerians are \u201csponsored\u201d by older Kenyan women and many also prey on rich ladies. The more the Kenyan women despise the Nigerian man, the more they love them.<\/p>\n

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The Nigerian men are known as sweet-talking Casanovas who sweep attention and love-seeking Kenyan ladies off their feet. It seems the Kenyan ladies have apparently been taken for granted, too long by their Kenyan men, so when someone comes and sweet talks them they immediately migrate to the 7th<\/sup> heaven! This viewpoint is confirmed by virtually every Kenyan male this writer spoke with about this curious phenomenon. The guys readily admit that they are not into all the romantic shenanigans the Nigerians go through to win the hearts of the women. \u201cCan you imagine me buying a flower for a girl?\u201d, is one of the most common quotes one hears from a large number of Kenyan men on this topic. Many also readily admit that they think that the Nigerians are better in bed than the Kenyans. This they say is because the Kenyans are always too drunk to perform! (P.S. those are the words of the Kenya men themselves. We don\u2019t mean to cause any offence whatsoever!). At first there was a high level of resentment and jealousy amongst the Kenyan men at the sight of West African (especially, Nigerian) men \u201cstealing\u201d their girls. That feeling is slowly turning into grudging acceptance that the situation is not about to change any moment soon.<\/p>\n

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However, most of the Kenyan men and women also see this phenomenon as a kind of real life-soap opera with great and real entertainment value! \u00a0First the girls get swept off their feet, but after a few weeks get their hearts broken! And those are the lucky ones! If you were not, you are not only left with a broken heart but more likely than not, you are left with an empty bank account or even greater financial ruin! That is when the reality sinks in. However, when you are addicted to something, you sometimes let your heart rule over your brain. So these girls will fall for the next Nigerian that comes calling!<\/p>\n

Which brings us to the world of Ben tens, sponsors and gold-diggers! It seems that a culture that has always subtly played itself out in the underbelly of many a society, has now become so widespread in Kenya, that it has now been accepted as a way of life. In fact it seems like if you are not in the world of Ben tens, sponsors and gold-diggers, you are an outcast.<\/p>\n